Someone called me just now. Asking for advices after being asked to be loaned to someone for 3 months period.
I just give him one advice,
"you can help ppl, but dont get urself into trouble".
Means, we can help others, but dont let that 'help' trouble us. Ive been in the situations where help turn to be a nightmare. I suffered for a few months. Just because of this 'help' thing.
Same as the caller, he'd been asked to go, but he need to bear quarter of the cost. I gv him some advices, n highlight that ive already 'feel' the consequences, but he denied by saying,
"aku tak mahu fikir la sebab ini bukan soal siapa kena".
Easy to say right? We never want to listen to what never happen to us, but when things turn out of the from our expectations, then we'll know, how things going.
I dont care, just sharing my thoughts. Want to listen or what depends on you. Btw, hes ur bro, he nvr betray you. Well. Still got mak n abah to back up what?
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