Assalamualaikum. Dan salam sejahtera pada yang membaca.
Pagi ini saya terdetik nak bebel kat medan sembang saya ni. Tak banyak hal pun tapi sesuatu yang buat saya annoy sangat sangat sejak kebelakangan ini. Sesuatu yang saya jumpa agak kerap di medan twitter dan ruang facebook. Sesuatu tentang "berlagak mulia".
Sedar tak sedar kita selalu jumpa kan, kalau bab curang, bab tak setia selalu lelaki yang jadi mangsa. Lelaki itulah lelaki inilah. Semua nak letak kat lelaki. Semacam mulia sangatlah kaum kaum wanita kat muka bumi ni. Maaf kasar betul ayat saya. Tapi itulah reality y bt kemarahan saya semenjak dua menjak ni.
Saya punya Mama, punya adik perempuan, malah isteri saya juga seorang perempuan. Tapi kemarahan saya bukan saya lepaskan pada mereka cuma saya tak puas hati pada perempuan perempuan di luar sana tu. STOP DOUBLE STANDARD! Reason : nowadays both are just the same.
Last time u can only imagine bout guys doing that. But nw girls are also on the same line. Doing the same thing , but question nw is, why the blame all goes to the guys? Do you think that u are not being rational? And blaming only one party.? One fren of mine reveals, she had a few boyfriend. And still counting. But everyone are blaming guys fr being a playboy? Think again. !!
I have fren. N this reality i guess will help you guys out there to understand the real truth. 2 person, lady and a man fall in love. Both promised to live together ever after. And they even commited sex as they were very sure that they will only love their couple. One day they breakup. That guy come and beg her to stay in the relationship because he and she had already taken their 'virginity' n guess what, that gurl refuses to return. I had found this situations 2 times. And yet ppl still trying to act like they are VERY NICE ?
You were talking bout 'mulia' now you have it. Both are just the same. Men also doing that. But they do sometimes think bout consequences n try to take
The responsibilities. But i cant deny that there are also guys who love to do but hard to stay when preggy take place.
Sometimes i do think bout putting the blame on a girls normally when guys 'down' after the miserable love story. But i cant. It is live. U nvr gonna have the best thing in live everyday, but u still can twist all those bad memories to a wonderful experience once uve found one in the future by learning to be better. That were called benefited from the worst. U gain the experience and u try not to repeat mistakes and keep the good things uve learnt before and apply in ur new life.
Remember. Both party are facing the same thing. Unfaithful. Failure And rejection in relationship.
So don't simply put the blame on one party.
Psst : my experience : falling in love after married is the best. U gv what u had , u spend what u kept fr long ago to a very special person, LEGAL one. The one who deserve all love that u got. ;)