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Wednesday, 30 May 2012

Journey of a groom-to-be

Assalamualaikum. Dan salam sejahtera pada yang membaca. 

Hye. Umm starting from today i will add up this slot to my blog sharing my every moment until my biggest day come. (that will definitely come soon, but i wont mention the date here, cause who knows right, i might not be there at that day, who knows 'i went up early than expected'). 

I hope this slot going to be the slot where i treasure every counted moment starting from today. 

First of all, i want to share bout choosing. 
Someone did ask me yesterday, "are most of Penangites come with that attitude? Have many options here and there, before choosing one"

Here is the place where i answered that Q. 
If we were talking bout picking one, there should be an option everywhere. You need have an options before finalising the option. For example, you have A, B C and D, then only you can pick one as the best between the best. Am i right? How can things be called as choosing when you dont have the options? Morever, the final answer for your decision might be the one who will forever be with you (Praying for that).

For me myself, my decision is ALLAH's decision. we choose to ask ALLAH, to pick which is the best between what we have in the surrounding. And alhamdulillah, ALLAH has giving HIS answer to our prayers. 

Rasulullah saw mengajar para sahabatnya melakukan Istikhaarah didalam semua perkara, sebagaimana baginda mengajar mereka surah daripada Al-Quran, Baginda berkata : ‘Jika sesiapa dari kamu perihatin terhadap sesuatu keputusan dia hendak melakukannya, maka lakukan solat 2 rakaat yang bukan dari solat fardu, kemudian berkata : Ya Allah, Aku memohon sesuatu yang baik daripada engkau menurut Ilmu engkau, dan aku memohon dari Engkau limpah kelimpahan engkau yang Maha Agung. Sesungguhnya engaku sahajalah yang Maha Berkuasa dan aku tidak mempunyai apa-apa pengetahuan. Engkau yang mengetahui Perkara yang ghaib. ya Allah, jika pada pengetahuanMu perkara ini baik bagiku baik didunia dan diakhirat, teguhkanlah ia bagi ku, mudahkanlah bagiku, dan berkati ia bagi. Dan jika pada pengetahuanMu ia adalah sesuatu perkara yang buruk untukKu dan juga agamaku, kehidupanku dan kesudahanku, maka jauhilahKu daripadanya, dan pergantikanlah kepadaku apa yang baik, dan redhakan aku dengannya‘” – [Di riwayatkan oleh al-Bukhari #6841, al-Tirmidzi, Al-Nasaa'i, abu Daud, Ibn Majah dan Ahmad]

well, its not as easy as we think, so better ask ALLAH. cause HE knows better. 


p/s : this method is better be done, when we were still 'ding-dong' in choosing one, heart which already picked the answered normally will choose what we already have. well, chenta kan? when love love is all around, we tend to think of him/her so much. Then how can the answer be defined? Whatever it is, choose wisely.

5 comments:

MizzTina said...

mesti berdebar kan.. tahniah sbb bakal melalui fasa baru dlm hdp.. =)

Raisya Haris said...

Groom-to-be? Abang Nadh dah nak kahwin? o.O Wahh, congrats abang! :D

kiera'sakura said...

dan kerana Allah dah menjawab dalam Istikharah saya.. Alhamdulilah :)

msredcheesecake said...

choose what Allah choose for us and have faith...

Iffah Afeefah said...

choose wisely

ermmm

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